Focus on what you want

21 days challenge:-Day 2

Thanksgiving:

- My husband agreed to cancel my daughter's non used simcard (sounds silly, right, but was big deal for me, story-worthy another time)

- New Learning ( the original approach to instagram was because all my children have one, even little 10 years old, now I discovered many inspiration from intagram lately)

"Focus on what you want."

Tom Bilyeu in his intagram shared interview with @danicapatrick, the message is powerful, "You go where you eyes go".  For the full interview, please search @tomblyeu

Here is what she said:

"You got to think what you do want, not what you don't want, So 100% you looking at wall, you are going there. Where you eyes go, just where your minds go, where you set your focus, mental attention, reference point...."

When I start to this new blog, is a new page for me, new chapter for my life.  As now I am living my life mainly for me (Thank God), I will find the The One Thing and Focus on it.

Things I plan to achieve in next three years (2019 to 2022)

• Pass JLPT N2 in 2022
• Travel 5 new countries where I have never been before
• Support my older children to reach their goals, to be biggest fan for them
• Be kind and supportive mother to my younger children who are still lacking of self control and self motivation
• Be kind and supportive wife to my husband 

The secret of Happiness

"The Happy Secret to Better Work" by Shawn Achor is such a delightful message for today's workforce.

We ought to learn the secret of Happiness. Shawn gave the simple outline on how to achieve just that:

• gratitude
• journaling
• exercise
• mediation
• random act of kindness

Sound easy? right, please do 21 days in a row, then, your brain will rewind itself, to focus on positive, instead of negative, to be happy , the performance will be better as result.

Let me put it into practice:

Day 1:

Thank God that my son got his School Full color honor and special mention award;

thank God that even it was raining, we were not late;

Thank God for simply honesty of coffee shop-man, when I could not remember whether I have paid for coffee:).

I should do the rest of them...