I still remembered the days when I had to drive my children for their swimming training. Four times a week, each time for at least four hours, some times, just had to drag their feet and chase them to the pool.....
It was easier said than done, they did listen to me when they were young, as soon as they were taller than me, they made their mind clear and loud.
Same went with piano lessons, I cannot remember how many times I had to sit with them for practicing.....Though all of them were introduced by formal piano lessons at early age, only my daughter lasted to finish Grade 8.
Looking back, I just could not emphases enough the importance for parents to allow children to find their own passion. It may take time, but when they find their passion, how above troubles will never happen.
When Paul and Noah started BJJ, I was horrified by their choices of sports...... But they were determined and passionate about this sport, I slowly gave in and gave space. Not even one time had I needed to remind them for training, instead, I was trying to persuade them not to train so much. The self motivation, self drive in the sports won my respect. I started to open heart to support their pursuit. It was a big learning moment for me too.
What would I say to young parents;-
It was easier said than done, they did listen to me when they were young, as soon as they were taller than me, they made their mind clear and loud.
Same went with piano lessons, I cannot remember how many times I had to sit with them for practicing.....Though all of them were introduced by formal piano lessons at early age, only my daughter lasted to finish Grade 8.
Looking back, I just could not emphases enough the importance for parents to allow children to find their own passion. It may take time, but when they find their passion, how above troubles will never happen.
When Paul and Noah started BJJ, I was horrified by their choices of sports...... But they were determined and passionate about this sport, I slowly gave in and gave space. Not even one time had I needed to remind them for training, instead, I was trying to persuade them not to train so much. The self motivation, self drive in the sports won my respect. I started to open heart to support their pursuit. It was a big learning moment for me too.
What would I say to young parents;-
- To let your children find their own passion by exposing them widely and be open minded
- Be ready to support their choice, no matter what.
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